Proposing 101: 5 Questions to Get Started On Your Engagement Ring
One of the things that makes a proposal memorable is the engagement ring. It is a constant reminder of the love you share and the commitment you have made to each other. Moreover, it’s a gorgeous piece of jewelry your significant other will be enjoying every day of her life.
The ring has to represent your love for your partner. Moreover, it has to be tailored to her style since this will show how much you understand her as a person. In other words, not just any old ring would do. The key to selecting the ideal ring is knowing the right questions to ask when shopping.
1. How would you describe her style and lifestyle?
Before buying an engagement ring, it is important to understand her style so you can pinpoint a design that would suit her the best. Since everyone is unique, some women may like bold pieces, while others prefer delicate jewelry.
One useful trick is to observe the kind of jewelry she glances at for more than a few seconds when out shopping. Is she more attracted to minimalist pieces or ones with specific motifs? These details may help down the line.
Her lifestyle is also an essential factor. Why? Practical reasons. For example, if she is more of a sporty person, she could consider a bezel setting which can better wrap the gemstone and protect it from accidental scrapes and bumps.
Take our 7-question Ring Style Quiz today to discover one that suits her best.
2. What kind of gemstone and shape would she like?
Many people may say that “diamonds are a girl’s best friend”, but getting a unique engagement ring can be challenging if your partner’s favorite gemstone is not a diamond. After all, colored gemstones have such a wide variety with more than one to represent every color of the rainbow.
Even if she loves a diamond, there are so many choices of diamond shapes to choose from - ten to be precise.
Whichever she prefers, selecting the right gemstone and gemstone shape for your engagement ring can make a significant difference to the final look of your ring.
If you are unaware of what gemstone your partner likes, come for our free monthly Masterclass to get the full breakdown and take our easy 10-question quiz to pick the correct Gemstone shape.
3. What is her ring size?
Rings are like clothing — if you don’t get the right size, it can be uncomfortable. As a bespoke jeweler, we also need her ring size to advise you on the best diamond ring style and gemstone size that might suit her.
One of the best methods to find out her ring size is to enlist help from one of her friends to take her “window shopping for fun”. While she is at it, said friend might even be able to coax her to talk about the type of rings she likes which you can then use when designing your ring.
Other tricks include taking one of her rings and getting it measured in a jewelry store. Either way, this is an important piece of information you need to proceed with designing her ring.
4. What gold color is her favorite?
A preview of our Kalina ring to show you how your choice of gold color can significantly impact the final look of your ring
When purchasing a customised engagement rings in Singapore, you will have the option to select the band material, usually in White, Rose or Yellow Gold, or sometimes Platinum.
Yellow gold is great for those who love vintage looks and warmer tones while Rose gold is considered a softer alternative because it suits a wider variety of skin tones. On the other hand, the more silvery Platinum or White gold will be ideal for a girl who prefers cooler hues and a sleeker, modern look.
While your ring design might be minimalist, this choice of gold color can dramatically change the final look, so any input on her preference would be very helpful.
5. What is the ceiling you’re comfortable with?
Before you even start thinking about gemstones, shapes, carat sizes etc, it is often helpful to decide how much you want to spend on your ring. While you might be tempted to splurge on this future family heirloom that your spouse will wear forever, we do not recommend going overboard.
As this is only the start of many important financial discussions to come, many couples we work with tend to have a practical discussion beforehand so they can come up with a reasonable budget for their ring. Once this ceiling is set, you will be able to strategize ways to get the best value while getting her the ideal ring that embodies her style.
Conclusion
Confused about your next steps to take? Take our 7-Question Ring Style Quiz to find the perfect style for your significant other.
Should you need a hand in crafting your dream ring, book a personal consultation with our jewelers to let August Bespoke’s custom proposal rings be a part of your special milestone. Our rings are crafted using the world’s best diamonds and gemstones, making them ideal for those looking for something unique that stands the test of time.
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